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My boyfriend talks about how hot other girls are all the time and it really bothers me...any advise? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and he loves asian girls (which I knew from the beginning) but since weve been together he always talks about how hot other girls are or what girls he would sleep with...he always says it laughing and that hes joking when I tell him it upsets me, but it really hurts my feelings. He knows all this but still does it a lot. I am italian, 5'5", dark brunette hair, I wear a size 5, Im a dancer, I have really dark skin and workout daily and always eat really healthy. I get hit on by other guys ALL the time, but my boyfriend never says he thinks im attractive or compliments me in any way until I say something..well then of course if I have to fish for compliments they mean absolutely nothing to me. Am I over reacting about it? He swears on his life and our relationship that its all jokes and he would never cheat on me but when he talks about other girls all the time and me so little it makes me question my trust for him and we have always had a great relationship so I do not want to do that. There is this Asian girl that is in our circle of friends that he thinks is the hottest thing on the planet and has told me he would marry her over me just cause shes hot (of course he laughed and said he was joking), but I do not even want to be in the same room with him when we go to parties and she is there..He kind of flirts with her in front of me and I know hes just thinking about how hot she is and how much he wants her naked. ha .I have told him I think if he got put in the right position that he would cheat on me with her...he got really upset and swore again on our relationship that he never would and that he loves me and thinks Im beautiful. Im reallly bothered by it though...any advise? | | just start calling other guys hot and show him how it feels then just be like see it doesnt feel good now does it and then he will stop | What do you think if your Asian girl friend shout out for one or two naked ex on facebook? Hi my girlfriend is an Asian, and we are going to have our first anniversary a month later. I just randomly checked the news feed on facebook, she commented on her ex-boyfriend's photo, showing two upper-naked muscle guy. which is her ex-boy friend and his brother. My girl friend left a comment, which says they are so hot and type like out of control. I dunno if it is me only... or if you guys were me, will you guys feel upset with me? Also, we've got many mutual friends between me, she, and her ex, and also his brother, we were in the same circle... will you guys care about it? | You should leave her... if she really was serious she'd only have eyes for you.
And it's nothing but bad news to be having that kind of connection to an ex. | How to deal with insecure boyfriend? Me and my boyfriend were talking online and I showed him a picture of a zebra print monokini. He always get freaked out when I mention bathing suits so I finally asked for an explantion.
He starts bugging out saying bikinis and monokinis are for single people only. And that if I have a nice body I dont need to show it off. I shouldnt be looking pretty and stunning by the pool or beach. If its hot..go in the water in one of HIS tee shirts and shorts. Other than that keep my clothes on.
Its not like Im posing for plyboy or anything...its just a bathing suit! He says he doesnt want other guys looking at me and doesnt wanna have to deal with it. I think he's just insecure? And he feels like if a guy hits on me Ill go for it and leave him. WHy cant he trust me?
Then I told him I bet he gets a kick out of swim suit models or naked girls on the TV or his computer and it isnt fair how when it comes to me Im suppose to be covered up like a chic from the middle east or something.
Then he was like...well those naked asian girls folder on my hardrive was sent to me over 2 years ago blah blah I dont look at them anymore. You said you were cool with it so thats why I kept it.
But I was like whoa!! He never told me about that folder...why the heck would I even be cool with that? If he keeps them in the same place as my sexy pics are...why is that saying?! It makes me feel like im not good enough...that he's not satisfied etc.
But he's kind of a hypocrit because if he has me...why does he need other girls photos? Just like how he was saying if im not single...why would I need to be showing off my body in a bathing suit?
Isnt he being a hypocrit? He says he doesnt look at them anymore...but if that were true why does he still have them! Total double standard..
Why is he being so insecure about the bathing suit and why is he making it seem like Im not suppose to be mad about the other naked girls on his computer!
I hd like a freaking panic attack last night because all the stuff he said reallyyy hurt my feelings =( | | =[ It kinda sounds like he's controlling. My boyfriend USED to be like that. Wouldn't like when i went to parties or hung around other guys. I actually had to break up with him and tell him that he was the only one i ever wanted but i couldn't take the jealousy. Now we're great. =] He actually just bought me a bikini the other day. If he still stays controlling like that...well....you might have to reevaluate your relationship. | A debate about sex and incest with my friend? Hi guys, me and my friend were in line out the front of a club and there was a very hot asian girl checking ID, and this hot girl has an even hotter sister, anyway my mate said he wouldn't mind rooting them both at the same time, which personally I find to be disgusting, but not from a moral or religious stand-point but just my own views, I mean I wouldn't feel comfortable laying naked next to my brother or sister lol.
anyway over the last few days we have been debating about it and can't really come to a conclusion.
how many people here find it weird and kind of gross? and how many wouldn't be bothered by it?
im just trying to get opinions off people I don't know
thanks guys!!! | | Are you guyding??!! I'd pay them! | Interesting NHL sports question with ultra bonus question!!!!? what retired player would you bring back to play in the nhl for one season/playoff.. and for that one year they would be in thier prime nhl athletic condition...very very tough choice. Choose only one and drop some fast facts or some interesting info about the reason of your choice.
my choice would have to be alexander mogilny bc i am sabres fan and when he was in his prime he put up some really solid numbers for the team. in 1992/93 he played 77 games and total 76 goals and 51 assist.. i was too young to really appreciate his skill at time and would enjoy seeing how he would do in this updated nhl..him and paval bure would be a sick duo to bring back, but i will save that for a different question.
random bonus question:
would you rather be able to:
A) never get sick again the rest of your life and have absolutely perfect teeth
or
B) have angelina jolie,girl from super bad that mclovin hooked up with,tara reid,bree olson, and a really hot random asian girl all drunk and naked in the same bed with you for a whole night, and upon waking up they give you back messages and serve you hot breakfast in bed in nothing but sexy undies ,a tank top with knee high colored striped socks. | Pavel Bure, because he never got to play to his full potential with his injuries.
BQ: B - I have good teeth and never get sick. | If you see a hot girl, how far does your thoughts goes? If you see a hot girl, how far does your thoughts goes?
I´m 21 years old girl.
I´m Asian (half Japanese and half Korean). I have pale skin and narrow eyes, small red lips.
I have this kind of look "very Asian look". (I hear a lot, I remind of pretty geisha in Hollywood movie)
I´m very confident about my look and I know many men think I´m hot.
I love myself and I guess it shows by my behaviors.
I wear blouse or something naive and sweet on the top,
but always wearing a miniskirt in the bottom and stockings.
(I like to wear clothes like in Japanese manga but my skirt is not that short.)
When I´m in school guys stares at me...being polite or shy. I feel it all the time that they find me attractive....but I guess it´s more sexually way then
"Hey she´s adorable She´s cute!"
They look at me more like
"wow hot!" or "damn what is she?"
Guys in class sneak look at me and I enjoy it.
But What I don´t know is....and bothers me....is that
how far their thoughts goes.....
I mean when they see me and thinking I´m hot,
are they thinking about SEX? do me?
I´m seriously curious....
Because I love guys attention and the way they look at me and be nice to me...get nervous around me.
I like them to think I´m a hot girl.
But I´m not sure If I like them imaging me naked and do them.
Today in class. The guy sitting next to me kept staring me and consciously looking at my lips.
I caught his eyes 2 times. and in both times, he did not turn his sights. he just kept staring at my eyes for 10 seconds.
That´s the time I questioned myself....
How far his thoughts goes?
Can you tell me honestly....
My English is very bad I know :(
I´m sorry about it. I just wanted to ask western people.
Because I´m staying in Us now. and this guy is American | Mentally, he's probably either raping you or imagining you sucking him off... Honestly, if I see an attractive girl dressed like that, it tells me she wants the attention and enjoys it. Of course I let my mind wander a bit farther and think about what she's wearing under the skirt, what her breasts look like, wether or not she shaves, what it would feel like to just bend her over the desk she's sitting at and go to town..
Welcome to America. Get used to it. | Am i a little bit gay? i cant stand seeing most naked guys and i usually masturbate to girls. but recently i tried getting horny looking at guys and i kind think chinese/japanese boys are cute. i love small almond eyes first off (i usually think asian girls are hot) and there less harry. i only masturbated to a teen japanese boy only once (I'm a teen too). is everyone a little gay or just me. | | Your probably bi, feminine guys are probably just your preference. | Im trying to find out what company or campaign this commercial belongs to because i can't seem to find it. In the commercial, theres a naked girl explaining to a guy how we can save energy by wearing less clothes so we don't get so hot and use the air conditioning. After she explains, they both look over and sees naked asian guy and the girl says something like "see, hes saving energy" and the asian guy says "nope, just naked"
Help me find this video. | | funniest commercial i've seen in a long time, its a green commercial for the discovery channel its part of their living green campaign and i don't think its on youtube or any of that yet... sad... | How do you deal with the negative stigma of a chubby girlfriend to your conservative Asian parents? How do you dispel the negative stigma of a chubby girlfriend to your conservative Asian parents?
My body weight is athletic and thin, very different from the chubby counterpart I'm attracted to.
I'd like to get some useful advices and tips from those who have experienced this issue. In Western countries, the average BMI is higher than that of Asian countries like japan and Taiwan, so a chubby girlfriend is considered fat in my parent's eyes. They keep telling me about how unhealthy it is and they repeat this like a mantra. How do I convince them otherwise? What should I do?
The girl I'm talking about looks similar to this:
dl0046.dmm.co.jp/bb/down/photo/houman014/houman014jp-002.jpg
And to just add to a little fun, can I get a vote of opinions based on the above picture?
The question is: Is bigger better?
1. Yes! definitely! More cushion for the pushin!
2. Maybe. It depends. I like firm boobs. Not big saggy ones.
3. No! Man the harpoons! Kill that whale!
4. That girl in the picture you posted is hot! Please tell me who she is as I'm her new fan.
5. I would like to eat raw sashimi off of that girl's naked body. no sushi needed as that girl comes with a few extra rolls!
Let me know, down below! thanks! | quick question:
is North Korea best Korea? | I need jealousy advice from men AND women!? I have been with my boyfriend for 2 very happy years. I was the first girl he brought home to his family, and I moved 4 hours away to be with him. But my jealousy has gone from a healthy, it's-because-you-love-him type to one that is tearing us apart. I never was the jealous type. When we got together we were hitting the strip clubs and even having threesomes, but eventually we stopped at his request, which was totally fine with me. But now I'M the jealous one and I don't know how it happened. I have to figure out how to fix this about myself because I am exhausting myself over it, and our relationship is feeling the pressure, although neither of us wants to split up.
I still get a little jealous of his girl friends, but I tell myself that if he has me around them, I know they can't be that big of a threat. If I can get over being jealous over REAL girls, why do I get so down on myself when he looks at porn or threads of half naked chicks online? It's so exhausting feeling like they are competition when I know they are not. This is where I get confused. I love my body (most days), and I am not without my share of men hitting on me, but the only guy's opinion I care about is HIS. I spend a lot of time trying to look and be sexy for him. I just want to be that outlet for him more than anything.
I have never turned down anything he wanted to do in bed. In fact, I always am the one trying to mix things up. I never gave a crap about my other boyfriends watching porn (I actually encouraged it) so why now???
So I start by asking myself, "Why do you feel this way?" It could be because I had caught him a number of times texting things to girls he should not have been texting, and I found some naked pictures of girls in his email. Because of these things, I began snooping and now I can't stop. We even broke up last week because I mentioned something I found (by accident, this time), and he couldn't take it anymore. At the same time I feel that my snooping is justified, I know that he does not deserve to have his history checked every day. After all, I haven't found anything incriminating in a while.
It could also be that I feel so strongly about him that I have never felt the need to look at other men (or women, which I GLADLY gave up because he became jealous), and if I can give it up, why can't he? Why SHOULDN'T he? Because he is a guy?
It could be because he told me that he has a thing for asian chicks. Like I wanted to know that. I could have gone years with him watching porn every day without saying a word, but now I have a whole race of women to be aware of. You know how you hear a word for the first time and then all of a sudden you notice it everywhere? Yeah, asian chicks are everywhere, especially on his stupid import car sites, and let's face it, they are hot. Like unreachably hot. White girls like me don't look like that. I can barely watch TV with him because the media has this f'ed up idea that if a woman on tv is hot, that she must be wearing as little as possible, as tight as possible, or at least offering to take off the clothes she IS wearing. And they think that if a man is going to be naked we might as well make him fat and hairy because that's funny.
I have talked to a few guys about this, all of them telling me I'm overreacting, but I don't think they realize how much the media is tailored to them. Seriously, watch for a few hours. How many stations are "The ONLY station made FOR men, BY men, etc.." with guns, explosives, and girls, or any combination of the three. The only ones we get are LIFETIME or OXYGEN. There are no naked men on lifetime!!! There are no naked men ANYWHERE! Every other station has scantily clad women. WHa about strip clubs and titty bars? There's like 15 strip clubs for men for every 1 for women, and that's if the women are lucky. Bikini carwashes? Spoiled..It's not that they get all this stuff, really. I'm all for a night of debauchery and Godspeed. It's just that we don't get anything at all. At all. Maybe a hunk on TV every couple hours, but I can bet money he is wearing full head to toe garb. And I seriously doubt that if women got as much eye candy as men that the men somewhere wouldn't "Overreact". It sucks watching the person you love ogling over someone else's body.
I am not the type that can hold things in- I go crazy, and all night he will be asking me what's wrong. But I can't talk to him about it either. He (like any other guy, I guess) gets SUPER defensive and thinks I'm absolutely nuts, but I can't just STOP feeling the way I do. It's a feeling. It's like those women take their clothes off just to set the girlfriends of the world back a few notches.
So what do I do? How do I give him his privacy while keeping myself secure and in check? Start looking at women online again just to show him how it feels? Let him see me get hit on and liking it (too far?)? Just plaster on that fake smile I know so well?
I would really enjoy perspect | | This is a very tough thing. |
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