Like seriously what is with this racial factor in dating? Like dating used to be something that 20 years ago, people would date for their personality. What the ****?
"Why do Latinas choose Indian guys"
"Black man stole white woman"
"White man chose black woman"
"Chinese woman loves Filopina man"
What's it gonna be in the future? "Latino man prefers to be in black woman-constructed building."
What is with this race in dating and everything.
Interracial dating is nice, but please stop for the race thing in choose dates.
Personality does NOT equal race.
When will idiots learn? |
Piss-bottle Jones says
probably right after you learn what race means, you didn't mention any |
Interracial relationship..meeting parents! help.? i'm in an interracial relationship. he's white and i'm black we're very happy together but i think its time to meet the parents and i think i'd be kind of rude or disrespectful to our parents to still be in this relationship for as long as we have (we've know each other for 2yrs been dating for about 4month) and not introduce each other to our parents
but i'm extremely nervous!
the reason why i'm very nervous is because his mother is racist. point blank and i'm not sure about his brother and his sister but he obviously overcame the ignorance of his mother.
i dont know how his family will react to me. i know it will be extremely awkward.
what if she says something rude to me.
am i suppose to be really nice.
what if they just look at me like im retarded and pull him to the side and say WHAT THE ****
i really dont know i'm sure his dad isnt racist because he said his dad was a strong believe of letting his guyren grow up without influence.
and with my parents they're really cool people my sister actually is engaged to a white guy and they have a guy together he's a kind of gangster guy.
and the guy i'm dating is kind of gothish and my family tends to talk about people amongst themselves once the person leaves the room and i find the extremely annoying :( i just want to make a good impression and i know they whole white guy wearing black eyeliner would get some looks
but i honestly dont want him to feel like he has to change and go into hollister and get an outfit or to just to meet my family. its not being himself.
I know my family wont be in my relationship and i'll still do what i wanna do at the end of the day. but still i'd like my family's approval. just because i'm a very family oriented person and i dont want this to be a whole disconnect from the family type of deal over a guy. |
| You should talk to your boyfriend before meeting each others parents and what your boyfriend should do is tell his mother to be nice as well as to back off because it's his choice who he dates not hers. People enter interracial relationships and I've never had a problem with it. I'm white and I have to admit that I have a thing for interracial relationships myself. People do make a big deal out of it but yet again, they're could never tell us whom to date. Also to let you know, if you two plan to marry, you should plan a wedding but you don't have to do it right away. You just take as much time as you need. Don't let the embarrassment get in the way of your happiness. |
Interracial dating problems ? Hey yahoo I'm a black female and I don't discriminate against anyone because of where there from or the color of there skin but I logged into facebook and seen a msg from a guy ranting about how I'm a trader because I have a white boyfriend he stated " black is beautiful remember dat u suppose 2 be wit ya own race sweetheart." WHAT THE ****? I'm confused I didn't know that I'm not obligated to date outside of my race because I'm black. What are u guys takes on what this idiot wrote me? And what would u reply to him saying? ..... |
| Is this a friend of your? I would tell him to F--k off. It's you in the relationship not him. I am white and have been with many different races. I would tell him Don't discriminate, but masturbate. |
Are Wiccans against interracial relationships? um okay my friend wanted me to look this up. but why do that when i can ask you good people first : D
we're both black girls btw. anyhow her bf is white and apparently wiccan. He wants to take her to meet his wiccan friends (they dont have church so i dont know what to call it but basically a gathering of wiccan people he knows well to practice wiccan things...idk)
i was really interested in wicca at one point so she asked me this. i thought it sounded pretty stupid. like who gives a **** anyway but shes more concerned about how his friends will react than i would be. shes worried that they will reject her the moment the see a black girl walking through the door. i really dont think they would. i mean im sure you have racist wiccans just as with any other religion but i dont think theres a rule against it at all. plus the guy shes dating is a pretty solid awesome person. i cant see him being friends with racists and if he was im almost 100% positive that he wouldnt let that sway his feelings for her. shes just a bit insecure and doesnt realize how much he cares about her. but we all see it.
so whats up? am i right ? : ] |
"i mean im sure you have racist wiccans just as with any other religion but i dont think theres a rule against it at all"
This is the answer to your question.
I've been Wiccan for over 12 years and I've met all types of Wiccans and for that matter, all types of Pagans. Most Pagans (Wicca is just one of many Pagan religions) are not much for bigotry. There are exceptions of course.
The ethics in Wicca are more about acting in a responsible manner and striving to continually improve our understanding of responsibility behavior with regards to ourselves, our gods, our community, our environment, and society.
Making judgments about who someone finds attractive just isn't something that would relate and we figure that's pretty much up to each individual. If you meet a racist Wiccan, you've just met a racist who happens to be Wiccan and is failing to grasp some important points about Wicca. |
Guys whats your say on interracial relationships? Ok so I've known this lil cute white girl for awhile now.At first we would just bump eyes and smile,Now its real deep.I've a girlfriend but its not working,matter-of-fact,its about done.So i see this white girl every school day.When im not in school,i see her in my mind and when im asleep i see her in my dreams (even wet ones) jokes! This feeling dwells deep and its blazing helplessly inside o me.She wants me to make a move and Im taking long,not that I dont want but because i dont know if its the right move.She has that i-dont-give-a-**** attitude but I find myself to be a yielding kind of person- aware of my surroundings, considerate of those around me, but mostly cautious. Not everyone is like this. Some people refuse to yield to anyone except maybe in imminent danger. This is a fascinating concept to me. I don't necessarily want to be that type of person, but maybe there is some kind of balance to strike?
So People,how many of you approve of this relationship.?
Im black by the way. |
I'm all for it.
Interracial relationships are the same as any other relationship: if you like each other, be together. Don't let the possible viewpoints of others influence your love life. |
What's race got to do with love? Mom says interracial couples are a crime against nature and she's making my life hell.Have you ever heard of such bullshit? **** her and her racist jokes and curses.Just because I'm under age .it doesn't mean that she has the right to stand between me and the love of my life |
| You're absolutely right...don't let your mother's retarded way of thinking or ideas get to you. She's an idiot....sorry, but it's true. Love has no color |
Whats up with the word "race"? i mean seriously common i see it everywhere where were not all human you bullshit *** people throw this word around like we all came from diffrent planets so now we have to be divided by that word or skin color the **** is up with that bullshit! white race black ra ce latino race asian race the only time i dont get pissed off seeing the word race is when nascar is on but its not like i watch it anyway interracial dating wtf is up with dating diffrent cultures and ethnicitys that pisses you ******* off so much you say the word interracial like someones dating a ****** shark a shark is a different race its not in the human race notice keyword is HUMAN damn you people piss me off THERE IS NO RACE CARD EITHER ITS A FIGMENT OF YOUR IMAGINATION you say race card like a cop is pulling you over cuz your a fish no you think its because your skin is different so you just go off on a list of your own life bullshit JUST SHUT THE **** UP FFS! DAMN if you dont like somebody thats fine but do nt not like someone because of thier skin color or who THEY! decide to make the boy/girlfriend. just because theyre happy together and your not dosent mean you can make them unhappy so please america AND THE WHOLE ******* WORLD QUIT ACTING LIKE GOD DAMN DICKHEADS 24/7! because ITS 2011 Hoes! not 1852 SLAVERY HAS BEEN OVER ALRIGHT! GET OVER IT AND STFU!EVERYBODY HAS BEEN ENSLAVED! PEOPLE HAVE EVEN ENSLAVED THERE SELVES SO QUIT ACTING LIKE YOUR THE MOST IMPORTANT PEOPLE ON THE PLANET BECASUE YOUR THE LAST CULTURE TO HAVE BEEN ENSLAVED! Why cant any of you ******* retards grow the hell up!Yes this is more of a speech than a question but please just post something up so i dont feel like im the only person who has any sense left oh and p.s. this black history month thing havent you noticed this is the only time you ever see black people on tv more out of the whole year wow and all they gave us was a month too the shortest month of the year ****! black history month **** history period because like everything else today history is bullshit because you dont really know it hppend or not you and the lieing batsard who wrote the book wasnt there to know what happend sure theres some stories but people change stories to make them more interesting IT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME!there im done. |
| STFU you whiny byatch !!! |
Why am I obsessed with Race? I am obsessed with race. This obsession has gone too far to the point where it is actually ruining my life and preventing me from thinking and worrying about other things. Instead of worrying about everyday things I worry about a Black man having a black guy because I simply worry that the race might become extinct. If the man has a mixed race guy I get angry and wonder why he didn't **** a black woman, and label him as racist, same for a black woman who does the same thing, in fact, it makes me more angry when I see a black woman in an interracial relationship because it makes me think they are not proud of who they are or can't seem to trust their own race. I look at mixed race guyren and wonder what their black was thinking. I wonder why that person couldn't find another black person, why they had to make their own race extinct. I am very against interracial relationships because I worry that all the good black women and men will be with the whites and then will encourage other blacks to date whites. I label every person I come across who is white as racist. I don't need this distracting obsession in my life and need to get over it. If I don't it will rule my life. Please answer with your suggestions.
P.S. I am of Middle Eastern heritage/origin and have very light skin. |
It keeps your mind from your real problems.
Obsessions aren't logical, it's kinda like you mix a fear or anxiety with a thought and get goo. You can't unmix it after a while.
Gret some Cognitive Behavior Therapy, it's a quick easy remedy that works well for an intelligent person. |
John Mayer’s playboy interview offensive? Really? Really, being a black dude myself, I cannot for the life of me understand why the interview or shall I say certain things in the interview were considered so offensive, really. No offense to anybody here, but the interview was quite funny for me personally. He said what he wanted to say and I respect that. A little of it may have been too much, but **** it. He kinda said, “to hell with this polished pop star image ****, I’m going to say what I wanna say, **** it” and I respect that. I don’t know, I kinda find that “pop-star-polished-I’m-so-good-noble-and… image, disgusting and tiresome. And he kinda broke through the confines of that and said what he wanted, I respect that.
Let me break things down here. He was a kiss and tell type of boyfriend. Ok, strike against him. He said the n word, ok, Sti—wait a minute, how did he use it? He said about his hood pass that he didn’t have one because if he did he could call it a ******(as in how other blacks call each other “*****”) pass but since he doesn’t he can’t. he was trying to say that he didn’t necessarily have a hood pass, and it seemed more like he was saying that it was impossible to get one unless he was actually black. Meaning that there is no such thing as a hood pass. Not really offensive other than the fact he’s white, saying the n word. Which other blacks should check themselves on, I’m sick of hearing other blacks say the n word, it’s stupid and ****** up.
Even he said it himself, “I was trying to intellectualize a word that was too emotionally charged”. And that’s what blacks are really faulting him for, not what he was trying to say but the fact that he said the n word. That and that david duke penis remark. He was trying to say that he wasn’t really interested in black women, that dating them weren’t his preference and I can understand that but he also said that he is planning to date outside his usual taste too. He may not have understood that using david dukes name would portray him as something else, he was trying to be witty as always, which this time backfired.
As for the black women thing, I can’t understand why they were so offended, really. He was just stating that he didn’t care for black women sexually, which was the wrong thing to say because some of his female fans would take offense to the fact that he normally isn’t attracted to them. So what? He did say that he was interested in some black girls but they just weren’t his types normally. If I were a white dude, I’d probably be more attracted to girls of my race, same thing if I were asian. Lets be honest, though interracial dating is becoming more popular, it’s not really the norm, he was just stating his opinion, don’t fault him for that, cut him some slack. I don’t even like his music but I think certain parts of this interview were blown out of proportion. I mean he even complemented us by saying(which could be him being sarcastic but sarcasm doesn’t come off well in text) “what is being black, it’s making the most of your life, not taking a single moment for granted. taking something that’s seen as a struggle and making it work for you.” when he could’ve said “It’s being a drug dealer or addict, a loser, an ape, a rapist and a poor father all rolled into one.” It’s not like he tried to just destroy black people like some other white dude would do if he said what was on his mind. Give him a break. What do you think? |
| I didn't read the interview and generally speaking I don't like John Mayer (except on the Dave Chappelle show...that **** was funny, lol). But I have to say, I agree with your position. I get so sick of people getting hated on because they spoke their own truth. What's wrong with that? |
Is it ok for my fiance to watch porn after we had sex? am I not doing something right or what? We have been together for 4 years and engaged pretty much the whole time, I have caught him watching porn on the computer right after we had sex.( more than once) and he is always hiding it! It makes me feel like I am not doing something right!! Our relationship is an interracial one. I am white he is black. and when he watches porn he only watches big booty black girls! Does that mean he wants to be back with a black girl or what I am feeling really shitty right now!!! What am I supposed to do? WHAT THE **** IS WRONG WITH ME? (Please help) |
| Girl dont even worry about it alot of guys watch porno after they are done having sex. My husband is 27 and I am 22. And I am white he is Mexican / Filipino. And I catch him watching Asian porn. It bothered me at first but i got over it. so all i am saying is if it keeps bothering you maybe buy some interracial porn or even just white girl porn and watch it with him. |